ss_blog_claim=91abee7392f347dc7735a3e80ce75bcf Kristina's Soapbox: Nice Guys Aren't My Thing

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Nice Guys Aren't My Thing

All my life, I have loved bad boys. They were always the most attractive to me. During my "dating" days, I exclusively dated bad boys. In fact, I distinctly remember a conversation with a very nice guy, and very close friend, about why I would not go out with him. My reply was along the lines of, "I don't want to hurt you. I am not interested in a relationship. You're just too nice. I'd rather stay friends, and chances are I'll lose that friendship if I date you."

One day, though, I started dating a guy before I realized he was a nice guy. In fact, I fell in love with him and married him. The first nice guy I dated, I married. Then..... I promptly changed him into a bad boy. I ask you, is it me?

In my opinion, I found just the right combination. He's all that I could ask for in a husband and father (the nice guy side) and he's also fun, adventuress, and crazy funny. I found a nice guy that was also a bad boy: the perfect combination.

1 comments:

Stina said...

Reminds me of Tim McGraw's song about being a bad boy, but a real good man...

 
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